I had a call with my Dad last thursday. He’s really bad with technology and struggles with basic things on his phone, but he’s been getting better with Whatsapp since Mum died. On Thursday he managed to send me photos of the dinner he’d mad for himself. His usual . onions, mushrooms and chicked, but with extra mixed frozen veggies and spaghetti, and he’s added a pasta sauce. It actually looked really good and he was clearly pleased with it. The fact he’d made the effort of figuring out how to send me photos was great and it made me well up. I was just replying when he called me so we chatted for our usual hour. On the call he also showed me christmas cards he’d written. One for Mark and Marietjie and another for Macayla. He’d used some of the cards Mum had made and had in a box, which in itself is really special, and had put a lot of effort in writing their names in a really decorative way. I still have a whole box of the cards Mum has made for me over the years, and they are so dear to me. A part of her I can keep and look back at. But what struck me was that Dad had signed the cards from him and Chloe (the dog), and it made me cry not seeing “from Mum” in them. Such small things that mean so much.
Journal
General journal/diary entries
2016 in review
I tried a fountain pen ink sample subscription.
Read 31 books
Created an Adobe Indesign and PDF tutorial that now has 8600 view on YouTube
Books Bought
Mindful Meditation
Rags & Bones – Short Stories
Conversations with Myself – Nelson Mandela
Six of Crows – Leigh Bardugo
Callanish – William Horton
Fred Green Tomatoes – Fannie Flagg
We Were Liars – E. Lockhart
Throne of Glass – Sarah J Maas
I’ll Give You The Sun – Jandy Nelson
The Executioner – Chris Carter
4 Jan – Pete got locked in bathroom
10 Jan – RIP David Bowie
14 Jan – RIP Alan Rickman
17 Jan – Walk around snowy Bletchley
19 Jan – stationerygeek.com
30 Jan – Sara Hennesey’s 40th
7 Feb – Bought paintings for bedroom and dining room from The Range
14 Feb – Whaddesdon Manor
18 Feb – Laura left AFB
18 Feb – 5 Love Languages
20 Feb – Mole removed from chest
28 Feb – Homebase sold
6 Mar – New Vivarium for Vash
7 Mar – Wine tasting @ H.M.S. President in London with AFB
10 Mar – Skin Cancer diagnosis received
13 Mar – Beili Helyg B&B, Brecon Beacons, visit Goodrich Castle on way
14 Mar – Hill Walk – Four Falls Train in Brecon Beacons
15 Mar – Penderyn Distillery
15 Mar – Marine Hotel, Aberystwyth
19 Mar – Painted tree on dining room wall
22 Mar – Brussels airport and metro attack.
25 Mar – Hill Walk – Ivanhoe Hills
27 Mar – Easter Sunday egg hunt
29 Mar – Dad’s broke leg falling off ladder
1 Apr – Dad knee surgery
2 Apr – Build cross trainer
3 Apr – Sand and stain IKEA Moppe draws to convert to apothecary drawers, Pete repaired outside room roof
4 Apr – Elena resigned
8 Apr – Dinner @ Banana Tree when I got date wrong for dinner with Laura
18 Apr – Bath plugs fit on the overflow #mindblown
21 Apr – RIP Prince
23 Apr – Left arm tattoo by Philip Milic
28 Apr – FS Awards – The Belfry
1 May – RIP Keegan van Staden
2 May – Tring Museum
4 May – Pete invited me to business conference call by accident
5 May – Won full Tombow Brush Pens set
10 May – Pete’s pay rise
12 May – Wide Local Excision * Sentinel Lymphnode Biopsy
18 May – Third Massdrop gift box 3
19 May – Mattress for guest bed
20 May – MK11 night out
21 May – Massdrop gift box 1 & 2
25 May – Morning with Digital Design Team
28 May – Parents Arrive
3 Jun – Last day working with Elena
3 Jun – Biopsy results clear
4 Jun – Family Reunion
7 Jun – Smart Metre installed
8 Jun – Orlando night club massacre
8 Jun – Berwick
9 Jun – Elgin, Scotland
10 Jun – Loch Ness, Fort Augustus, Culloden Battlefield
11 Jun – Fort George
11 Jun – Eddie’s 70th party
12 Jun – Berwick
14 Jun – Mum & Dad made shelf above desk, wall mount TV, new curtains
15 Jun – I scratched girls car at Dunelm
16 -19 Jun – Arthur & Sue visiting
18 Jun – Dinner @ Swan for Dad’s Birthday & Parent’s Ann. Arthur ill.
19 Jun – Parents 45th Anniversary
24 Jun – Brexit
24 Jun – Parents Leave
Jul – Camp NaNoWriMo – 10,000 words writing in July
3 Jul – New shed
15 Jul – France massacre
18 Jul – Resigned from AFB
24 Jul – Drink with Tom K @ The Three Trees
26 Jul – Mum wrist surgery
28 Jul – Corner cabinet for dining room
30 Jul – Lisa’d wedding, Rugeley
1 Aug – Annetjie knee replacement
5-6 Aug – Stranger Things on Netflix
6 Aug – Back to red hair
12 Aug – Shadow had his teeth removed
13 Aug – Diner & drinks @ Tom’s house
21 Aug – Pilot Vanishing Point
29 Aug – Stowe visit
31 Aug – Last day in AFB
1-6 Sep – Galway, Ireland
2 Sep – Sainsbury’s buys Argos
3 Sep – Beth & Alan’s Wedding
4 Sep – Beth & Alan’s cottage
8 Sep – Start in Digital
21 Sep – Massdrop giftbox 4
28 Sep – My first bath bomb
1 Oct – Swatched my fountain pen inks
7 Oct – Pete’s climbed Skaffel Pike
9 Oct – Made new friendship bracelet
10 Oct – Hive installed
15 Oct – Hononichi Techo
15 Oct – New fireplace grate
22 Oct – PS4 & The Last of Us
23 Oct – Walk in Emmerson Valley park with MacBook
30 Oct – Adam Hills @ MK Theatre
5 Nov – Garden shredder
9 Nov – Trump wins US election
12 Nov – Mini sewing machine
16-20 – Sigrid visit
23 Nov – switched to using a menstrual cup.
25 Nov – Hip spasm
17 Dec – New dinner set
2015 in Summary
Wow 2015 has been INSANE! Overall it’s been an amazing year.
January
5th Jan – Pete started a new job in Digital Operations
7th Jan – Gilbert, a long standing friend of Pete’s father, passed away.
9th Jan – Contracts were exchanged to purchase our first house
16th Jan – We got the key to our new home.
23rd Jan – MOVED INTO OUR FIRST HOME!
28th Jan – Saw Cirque du Soleil @ The Royal Albert Hall, London
February
16th Feb – Shadow the cat adopted us
March
3rd March – Jimmy Carr @Milton Keynes Theatre
7th March – Nikki Hall/Larwill’s wedding
22nd March – Bought my MacBook Pro
25th March – Internet Retailer Expo for work
April
24th April – bought huge nail varnish haul from colleague
? – Pete started a new Jiujutsu class
29th April – Pete went to the Abode Conference and saw Brian Cox, Benedict Bumberbatch & Bastille
May
3rd May – Reginald D Hunter @ MK Theatre
13th May – New dining table delivered
28th May – Amanda Palmer & Neil Gaiman @ Hackney Empire
30th May – Dylan Moran – Off The Hook Tour @ Hammersmith Apollo (Great train ride home! Simon Murray lost his friend Chris)
June
22-26th June – BUDAPEST
July
2nd July – Rescued abandoned baby hedgehog
4th July – La-Z-Boys deivered
August
16-28th August – FAMILY HOLIDAY with the in-laws. 1 week cruise around the Mediterranean & 1 week in Croatia.
September
28th September – Joined a yoga class (short lived)
October
2nd October – Got MacBook Pros at work
3rd October – Rugby World Cup @ Campbell Park
4th October – New Ikea mattress delivered
8th October – Mark turned 40.
November
1st November – Put black streaks in my hair
December
12th December – Pete bought his BMW 325i
12th December – Karen’s 50th
Others things
This year I got a bit more serious about learning about Buddhism and started a daily meditation practice.
I expanded my interested for fountain pens, inks and nibs.
My Bullet Journalling really came into it’s own. This system is so wonderful!
Shadow truly became a part of our family and we absolutely love him.
I read/bought some great books. Highlights were:
The Name of the Wind – Patrick Rothfuss
Eat, Pray, Love – Elizabeth Gilbert
Big Magic – Elizabeth Gilbert
I was still painting my nails; and I finally swatched, photographed and catalogued ALL 340 of my nail varnishes!
I focused of improving my hand writing and lettering
I coloured stuff in
I probably spent way too much not enough money on stationery, but it was a creative year thanks to it!
WHAT A TRULY AWESOME YEAR!
Lists of Lists
Have I mentioned how much I like lists? Well I do. I like lists, a lot. Listing things make me feel really organised and clears my head.
One of the other things I love about Bullet Journalling is compiling brain dumps into lists. Lists about music, travel, food, wish lists, anything! If you are list lover like myself, there is one other things I love as much as lists, and that is inspiration for even more lists. Yes, a list of lists.
So here you go, a list of lists to inspire you!
- Future pet names
- 5 Secrets
- Most humbling things I’ve seen/experienced
- 10 typical daily activities
- My hobbies
- Favourite places
- Places I’d like to travel to
- TV characters I’d want as friends
- Things to accomplish this year
- Things to accomplish in my life
- Favourite desserts
- Things most people don’t know about me
- If you could have dinner with 10 people (dead or alive)
- Favourite drinks
- Favourite websites
- Top TV Shows
- 10 Things you’d rescue from a fire
- Simple pleasures
- Superpowers you wish you had
- If I rules the world…
- Favourite foods
- Things I want to learn
- Things I loved doing as a teenager
- Favourite movies
- Worst movies
- Best childhood memories
- Top 10 Songs
- If I had all the money in the world for just one day
- Concerts/Gigs/Shows I have been to
- Things that annoy me
- Favourite artists
- Pets I have had
- Funniest things I have ever seen
- Things to do on rainy days
- Books I want to read
- I should really just…
- Best purchases I’ve ever made
- Places I have visited
- Jobs I have had
- Jobs I would love to have
- Favourite words
- Books I have loved
- My creature comforts
- My essentials
- Things I should feel proud of
- Things that remind me of home
- Current/future goals and dreams
- Things I want to make
- I am grateful for
- Favourite quotes
- Beside my bed
- Favourite albums
- Current (mood, music, watching, eating, drinking, browsing, dreaming…)
- List of firsts (kiss, road trip, school, car)
- Bucket list
- People I admire
- Inside my bag
- Everyday carry items
- Things I collect
- Fictional places I’d like to visit
- Fears
- Favourite smells
- Facts about me
- Reasons to make lists
- Things I love to touch
- Favourite poems
- Things I’d rather be doing
- My strengths and talents
Things I have mentally already spent my salary on
Share Your World – 2014 Week 23
This is my first time participating in Share Your World 🙂 I’m sure it won’t be the last. 🙂
Would your rather be stuck in a small plane with mild turbulence for 2 hours or be a passenger in a car racing the Daytona 500?
Definitely be a passenger in a Daytona 500 Car. I hate flying and find turbulence quite terrifying. I’ve already experienced being a passenger in a dirt rally car and I loved it, so am sure the Daytona experience would be a thrilling once in a lifetime opportunity!
Would you rather be alone with nobody in the vicinity for one month or never be alone not even for a minute for one month?
That’s actually really tough! I LOVE my own company, but a month would feel like a VERY long time. Though without any time alone I might go insane too. Maybe if the person I was forced to be with was quiet it would be OK though.
If I was in my own space at home I’d choose to be alone. There’s plenty I could do 🙂
Would you like to sleep in a human size nest in a tree or be snuggled in a burrowed spot underground?
I’d choose the tree. It would have lovely views and I could quietly watch people going by from my lookout spot.
In a car would you rather drive or be a passenger?
I prefer to be a passenger. I like to take photos along the way and relax. Driving takes a lot of concentration, and that’s quite tiring over long distances.
Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?
The Saturday before last I sold my car, so that was awesome; and my husband successfully climbed Ben Nevis and came home safe and sound. This week… probably buying my husbands birthday present 🙂
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Want to take part in Share Your World? Head over to Cee’s Website to get the latest questions and more info 🙂
1999 – A good year for cinema
Do you know how many awesome movies were released in 1999?
Thanks to a recent Mashable article about Napster’s ’99 release, I discovered that 1999 was a pretty damn good year for cinema. I looked online and put together this list of some of my favourite ’99 films.
Which were your favourites?
My favourite? Hmmmm… Fight Club was phenomenal, but so was The Matrix. Both films which twisted my brain and made me rethink what I knew about cinema. The Green Mile made my cry like few other films have before, and to this day I still totally adore the Cruel Intentions OST.
But if I really had to to pick just one, I’d probably have to choose 10 Things I Hate About You. The character of Kat really spoke to my 18/19 yr old self as I was in a serious transitional phase in my development and growing into my own skin. This was the first movie I ever watched more than once in the cinema; there have been others after it, but this was the first. Julia Stiles was amazing as Kat, and really connected with my own rebellion against society at the time, and I really wanted to “not give a shit” like her (though we know that’s not actually true). It was in this film that I also developed a massive crush on Heath Ledger, and was gutted when he passed. Some of the young actors from this film took there careers to wonderful new heights after it. Joseph Gordon-Levitt was amazing in (500) Days of Summer, and of course Inception, and well, Heath… there will never be another Batman villain so sinister as Heath as The Joker in The Dark Knight. So yes, it was a teen movie, but I was actually a teen back then, and I LOVED this movie. If ever I see it on TV when channel surfing I will always watch it over again, as for me it’s still just as good now as it was back then. 🙂
Bullet Journalling
So it started when I clicked a Book Riot article and started adding some books to my goodreads reading list, then I bookmarked the page in Instapaper, then decided to organise my Instapaper a bit and move articles in folders. Then I spotted a saved article from Lifehacker about journalling and opened it, which sidetracked me onto a bunch of articles about paper journals (Heaven!) and then finally another article about Bullet Journalling.
The rest of my night from that point on, is history. As you can see I’m easily distracted and my mind is all over the place. This is a normal everyday scenario for me, and that’s why I’m an obsessive note-taker and also why Bullet Journallying is my new favourite thing in the world, and I’ve only been doing it for about 1.5 hours. Why? Because I know it’s really going to work for me. I LOVE keeping analogue notes and scribble lists and ideas on scraps of paper all over the place on a daily basis and I’m sure this will help me keep them more organised and more productive.
Here is what I have put together so far:
I’ve only just scratched the surface of bullet journalling and look forward to developing my own methods, but the basic structure is already a really great starting point and I can’t wait to do it more.
To learn more from the man whom invented it, check out the stunningly designed official bulletjournal.com site here.
More inspiration from other people using this method (adding more as I find them):
- http://www.misszoot.com/2014/01/06/bulletjournal/
- http://www.johncooper.me/bullet-journal-nearly-3-months-later/
- http://www.johncooper.me/bullet-journal-series-complete-package/
- http://www.johncooper.me/bullet-journal-march-2014-update/
- http://eddyhope.com/bullet-journal-future-events-solution/ (Calendex method)
- Bullet Journal inspiration from Pinterest
- http://bump.net/2013/12/things-that-worked-for-me-2013-bullet-journal
- http://interpunctedthirty.wordpress.com/2014/03/29/bullet-journalling-six-months-on/
- https://www.facebook.com/bulletjournalfansite
- G+ The Bullet Journal Community
BTW, I still haven’t finished reading that Lifehacker article, or sorting out my Instapaper folders, but I’ve got it down on my bullet journal 🙂
Present Ponderings – Sun 11 May ’14
For a while I’ve been trying to think of a recurring post I can use for a quick post and update about what I’m up to at any given time. Back in the yesteryear of my website I had a small area just called “Current” where I listed what was current for that day. Since I love lists I thought why not keep the same format. I’d like to do it as a weekly thing but am not sure if I really have enough to say each week as generally I lead a rather routine life, but we’ll see how it goes. So introducing the first post of:

| Watching: | Game of Thrones, 24 (SE3), Gogglebox (Hilarious!) |
| Listening: | Pixies – Indie Cindy / The Black Keys – Thickfreakness / Whip It OST / Garbage – Girl Talk Single |
| Reading: | Dreams of Gods & Monsters – Laini Taylor |
| Feeling: | Unfit |
| Writing: | Addresses on envelopes to post a family DVD to cousins & aunt |
| Loving: | My Gorjuss iPad Mini cover |
| Wanting: | Embroidery Floss to make a friendship bracelet to replace the one I lost in Dubai Airport 🙁 |
| Crafting: | A Zentangle Mandala |
| Playing: | Elder Scrolls Online |
| Wasting: | Precious time not getting shit done |
| Wishing: | My car was sold |
| Dreaming: | in Elder Scrolls Online because we played so much yesterday (11 hours!) 😮 |
| Enjoying: | Podcasts – Check out Books on the Nightstand & Book Riot |
| Trying: | To lose weight as part of a work challenge |
| Waiting: | for a wheel cap centre to be delivered for my Dad’s Beemer in South Africa |
| Looking: | Forward to my 3rd tattoo session on Wednesday! |
| Liking: | That I’ve finally got this post together |
| Bookmarking: | Lots of blog related infographics on Pinterest |
| Laughing: | At this! |
| Following: | About a million blog related Pinterest boards and websites |
I got a strip show in Elder Scrolls Online
So this happened on the weekend. I noticed a player standing around and dancing and so I stopped to watch him. Shortly 2 other blokes joined him and next thing they took of their character clothes and gave me a show! LOL!






































