A strange day at work today. I had a dream that I was walking down a road and there was a guy that I knew in my dream (not in real life though) and he was saying I should smile, as I used to smile all the time and now I don’t. It got me thinking that that is actually true. I need to smile all the time again, and be the positive person I used to be before the real world disillusioned me.
The x* guys were doing a training exercise at our offices again today. They are basically high level private security guys that protect high profile people, that come to carry out fictitious security scenarios, and train and survey as if it were a real situation. They are basically guys in suits and ear pieces, that walk around looking at the building, taking photos and analyze security risks; and pretending they have to protect our boss from an imminent threat. It’s always quite strange and secretive when they come. They come here because one of the senior trainers is friends with our boss.
(* it’s a secret!)
Pete emailed me asking if I wanted to go out for dinner with him tonight. I’m looking forward to that 🙂
My Uncle Ted visited on the weekend just gone. He was down to help Janine and Lorraine start sorting out affairs for my Aunty Sandra’s house. He stopped in for a visit with us on Sunday and brought me a gift. Prints of old retouched portraits of my Sas Grandparents and all 4 of my Great Grandparents also on my Dad’s side. I was really touched that he did that for me. I’ve never seem photos of my Great Grandparents before so it was very interesting to me. I should try do some research and see if I can find out their names.
I realised what with the excitement of my Niece Macayla arriving, that I had forgot to journal about my Aunt Tracey’s wedding on Friday 24 September.
We had a truly wonderful day! It was chiller that we would have hoped, but the rain stayed away the whole day so we can’t complain too much. The ceremony was at the Stafford Register Office. A really nice building, fitted with dark wood panneling, that felt old and prestigious, yet warm and cosy. Uncle Kevin was the best man and jokingly changed the wedding rings on the ring cushion to pull rings from beer cans. It was a good ceremony with lots of giggles and a few tears. The reception was at Lea Hall in Rugelely. We ate quite early then everyone left for a relax before returning for the evening party. And Party we did. I had such a lovely day with family, laughing drinking and dancing, it was really special.
Today is the first wintery feeling day. 2 Weeks ago was the first day I felt the shift from summer to autumn, but today it’s definitely wintery. I was breathing thick mist on my way to work this morning.
When I feel the shift in the changing seasons I always feel strange. It almost feels like a deep sense of nostalgia. As soon as you feel the change it’s like a rush of memories from winters or summers past. I used to get the same feeling in South Africa with the changing seasons, but it’s much much stronger here in England. It’s quite a hard feeling to describe really, it’s a rather intense emotional one, but deeply rooted to the seasons and climate. And a nice feeling too. Isn’t it strange? I feel like a bit of a hippy going on about it like this really.
Today this feeling reminds me of going to House-sit for Pete’s cousin Bergitte in Whitchurch. They usually go away in November and we’ve looked after their house for the last 2 years. I wonder if they will this year. Red wine, low light and a log fire. It’s sheer heaven!
Yes, I am finally an Aunty 🙂 My Brother’s wife, Haylie had originally been booked in for a C Section on 18th October, but little Mac decided she didn’t want to wait that long and Haylie’s waters broke last night. My brother txt me at 21:32 last night with a photo of Haylie to say they were at the hospital and were having the baby tonight. Obviously I was surprised as we didn’t expect her this soon, but she was delivered by C Section 2 hours later! My Mum phoned me immediately to tell me I am an Aunty, and we both just cried for joy 🙂 She’s 3.1 Kgs and perfectly healthy. I’m so, so, so happy. Words just can’t express it. It’s times like this I really hate being so very far away. I wish I was there to give her a kiss myself, but I’ll have to rely on photos, txts, emails and facebook for now.
My Aunty Tracey is getting married to Andy tomorrow. I’m really looking forward to it. Family wedding are normally loads of fun. I’m sure there will be a few tears for Aunty Sandra too as it hasn’t even been a month yet.; but I’m sure they day will centre around happiness and love. I’ll take loads of photos 🙂
We are pet-sitting Amie’s tortoise, George, at the moment as they are moving house.
I’m currently reading The Book of Tomorrow by Cecelia Ahern. I’m loving it and would definitely recommend it to my friends. Hopefully I’ll finish it tonight.
Pete and I are going to New York for news years! I’m so excited. I suggested it as a throw away-comment in email on Tuesday, and it now it’s booked. I’m already amasing a list of things to do, see and eat while we are there, and we are going for 8 nights and staying right in the centre of the city. I’m beyond excited for it 🙂
My parents recently spend 3 weeks with us here in England. From August 20th to September 10th. They live in South Africa and came over to surprise me for my 30th Birthday. I had no idea they were coming over and had arranged it with Pete when we over there for last Xmas and new year. It was an amazing surprise to me and I was especially proud that they managed to keep it a secret from me because I’m always so suspicious, and Pete didn’t let on with a single thing!
Pete took me to dinner on Friday the 20th, the night before my birthday party and went to order drinks, next thing I know these people are approaching our table with our drinks and it was my parents in disguise! It was fantastic.
My Birthday party itself was amazing. Best birthday ever. The Venue was perfect, drinks were cheap, the DJ was excellent and I got to go crazt to some of my favourite tunes while surrounded by friends and family. It was just perfect. I’m sure no future birthday will ever compare.
Unfortunately I had to work the first week of their holiday, but they got to spend time with the rest of the family and especially Aunty Sandra, which was totally excellent because unfortunately she passed away on Sunday 29th August. My Mum had spent the day with her and hadn’t been home too long when we received the call. My parents and I immediately when around to pay our respects and say goodbye. I must say I was very hesitant to see her because I saw my cousin Ange (Sandra’s Daughter) after she had passed and it scared me. But after I saw her, I was so glad I had. She looked so peaceful and happy, and she actually looked better then she had in months.
The second week of their holiday I was off work, which obviously I was really thankful for, to be able to spend time with my parents and also not having to go into work when we’d just lost Aunty Sandra. Tuesday we’d already booked one night away in York. We took a leisurely drive up through the Peak District, and stopped of at a few locations along the way. Firstly we went through the area called Woodseats in Sheffield where my parents lived and we had lunch at The Waggon and Horses where my Dad asked my Mum to marry him. Then we went to see the house my dad lived in with my grandparents (the owner didn’t like my Dad filming the house!), and afterwards went to the pub called The Big Tree to meet up with my Dad’s brother, Uncle Arthur. We had a drink there then followed Arthur to his house going via Eckington, the village I lived in before we emigrated to South Africa when I was 8. We had a drink at Arthur’s then made our way to Hotel Noir in York. We dropped our stuff at the hotel then walked into York centre for dinner and a brief walk around. Wednesday we spend walking around York City Centre and also visited York Museum. (Stunning!) We had a lovely day and it’s an incredibly beautiful and clean City.
Thursday we spend In Stafford. Friday we went up to Lincoln for my Dad because that’s where he grew up. We walked up the steep hill street up the the Cathedral and Castle. It is such a stunning city, I could easily move and live there. It’s just a place that somehow feels like home to me. Friday evening we went and had Indian with Kevin, Jane & Becky.
Saturday Arthur had his partner Sue came down from Sheffield to have dinner with us. Pete and I opted to stay at home though to just have an evening to ourselves to chill out. My parents had a fantastic time though and got along really well with Sue despite previous reservations. Arthur used to me married to my Mum’s sister Margaret. Odd I know. So it was great that they had a fab evening together.
The following Monday I was off as it was Aunty Sandra’s Cremation. The service was really lovely, she would have really liked it. It felt like I cried the whole day though and ended up getting drunk. The wake at the Rangers after was also really nice though, especially for all the family to be together. It was very a very hard day though. My Dad’s other brother, Ted, was previously married to Sandra (I know! ) was there and he came back to our house to stay afterwards and stayed for a couple of days at my request. It was nice for my Dad to get to spend some real quality time with him. He left on Wednesday as we’d arranged to have dinner with Arthur and Sue; and Ted and Arthur don’t talk to each other anymore (bad business history). We had a takeaway with Arthur and Sue. We were previously planning to go out, but Mum had developed a cold so we stayed in. We had a great time though and lots of laughs, especially playing with Talking Tom Cat. Thursday I was still at work so my folks just mostly relaxed. Then Friday was the day they went home & it was all over way too quickly.
It was so amazing to have them here though. It had been a truly wonderful surprise and the best birthday ever. Of course their entire holiday was bitter sweet though because of Aunty Sandra passing, but really it was a blessing. She’s no longer suffering, and she got to see both my parents again, which I know would have meant so much to her.
